I
started pursuing vocational ministry at a young age, right out of high school.
And I was officially ordained for pastoral ministry nine years ago. I still
draw looks of sympathy and shock when people find out I am a pastor at Faith
Baptist Church. All that to say, I am still a young man. Thankfully, we have
more young men desiring ministry and serving in different churches and
organisations. I have received numerous
warnings during my time in ministry to watch my life and doctrine. “Be wary of
the three big sins; pride, sexual scandals and love for money.” They would say. Of the three, greed for money and sexual immorality are emphasised partly
because they are often prominent and easy to notice and prove. Pride, however,
is harder to prove. Have you ever tried to confront a proud person about their
pride? Or do you remember your response the last time you were confronted about
your pride? You get my point, right? While what I say here can be true of
everyone, my focus will be on the young ministers (both in age and newness to pastoral ministry).
The pride of Impatience
Youthful
zeal and vigour are the blessings young people possess in abundance. They have
the strength and always boiling to get things done. They want to preach people
out of their sins and see everyone grow to maturity like yesterday. They want
success now. They also have seen and admired the success of their spiritual
heroes. They want to emulate their successes and enjoy the privileges that
their heroes enjoy. They forget that their heroes have laboured for decades and
are beginning to see and enjoy the fruit. The ministry is not like throwing
popcorn in the microwave; it is like a farmer planting a seed in the ground and
waiting patiently. Impatience leads to frustration and discouragement, which leads to
joyless service.
Clamour for attention and platforms
Social
media has made all of us into self-marketers. We have learnt how to package,
parade and promote ourselves. We put ourselves out there and wait for the
likes, shares and comments. We desire to take the word out, but we also want to
be noticed and recognised. We clamour for attention and platforms. We want the
big and famous to see and recognise us. We love the church, but we want a
personal ministry venture by the side, which can be considered our initiative.
So we look for praise and applause wherever we can get it, and we are shocked
and unprepared when confronted, criticised or condemned. We deem ourselves
experts on every issue and freely and strongly share our opinions. We will do
anything to get attention, including attacking and slandering other Christians.
After all, the more malicious and cynical our comments are, the more airwave
they receive. We need to constantly remind ourselves that Self-praise and
self-referential ministers do not point to Christ.
An assumed holiness
One
blessing of ministry is the gift of regular opportunities to teach, study and
read extensively. Ministers get to answer questions and have conversations with
people about all kinds of spiritual and biblical topics. With this comes the
temptation to have assumed holiness. To think that because you have taught
something, you have lived it. And to believe that you become holy by the sheer
fact that you have read and taught something. As a result, it is not uncommon
to find young ministers whose self-assessment of their holiness is far from
reality and whose life is screaming louder than their words. This is the
failure to learn and listen to those who have gone before us and assume we know it all. We behave like
that single and childless seminary graduate who wrote his dissertation on “the five
definitive principles of raising children,” his bold and assuming title underwent several revisions after marriage and children came; from
“five principles to raising children” to “five suggestions” and last “, help me
I am dying” after the fifth child! Teaching truth and even doing it well is not
the same as living it out.
An argumentative and quarrelsome spirit
Young
people are inclined to be argumentative and quarrelsome. It is partly because
of the eagerness and because they are just beginning to learn principles and
are not fully exposed. They see things only one way and are therefore
narrow-minded. They are ready to jump into every fight and burn bridges—cue in
social media, which unfortunately provides a platform for both the wise and
unwise. Paul warns Timothy to pursue purity, and in this context, he is concerned
about a quarrelsome spirit. Paul says that an antagonistic spirit comes from an
impure heart.
In
our pride, we want everyone to be like us. We expect them to agree with
everything we say and support all our ideas. They must fit our tradition, and we
do away with them if they do not. That was the spirit of disciples when they
stopped someone from casting out demons because he was not one of them. They forgot
that the Lord can use anyone to advance his kingdom. We will mark and avoid
them purely because they are not part of our tribe.
Conclusion
When not dealt with rightly and humbly, these
temptations and struggles make for some angry, discouraged, and envious young
preachers. They blast, shout, complain and grumble about the church and
everything else. They are often discouraged and do not experience the joy of their
Christian service. They do not delight in the work because they do not delight
in the Lord. Their angry preaching is mistaken for powerful preaching. Their
self-pity attitude is spiritualised and called suffering in the ministry.
Discouraged, angry and joyless people do not make for good shepherds, nor are
they examples of Christlikeness. And so, young ministers need to learn to
delight in Christ and find their satisfaction in him alone because he is more
than enough. John’s declaration should be every minister’s declaration, “He
must increase, but I must decrease.”
I’m no pastor, but I’ve definitely been rebuked. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteAlso, just a correction.
Right at the end, I think it ought to say, we must decrease!🙈
Thank you for reading and glad it was helpful. I have corrected the error! Thanks for spotting it.
Deleteand last, "help me I am dying” after the fifth child! 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeletePowerful
ReplyDeleteThis is very helpful may God help me not to fall into this.
ReplyDeletePowerful! Lots of insight here.
ReplyDeleteExcellent counsel!
ReplyDeleteVery helpful. I'm a young pastor, and this has challenged me a lot. Pray for me!
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