The Apostle Paul writing from prison declares to the
Philippian believers “rejoice in the Lord and again I say rejoice” (Phil. 4: 4).
And in Galatians 5, joy is a virtue of the fruit of the Spirit. Spirit-indwelt
and Spirit-filled believers are to be characterized by joy. However, many of us
Christians would admit that we are often frustrated, grumpy, complaining and
largely unhappy from day to day. How then does a believer live through life
with joy?
Relationship with
Christ
As recorded in John 15, Christ tells the disciples to abide
in Him that their joy may be full or complete. In other words, true lasting joy
comes from a healthy relationship with Christ. When one is growing in the
knowledge of Him and living according to His Word, he or she possesses a
complete satisfaction. Christian joy comes from your knowledge of God through
Christ and the many benefits of that relationship. It finds its anchor in the
knowledge of God. This kind of joy cannot be manufactured by our own efforts,
and it is not dependent on life’s circumstances.
This joy is also contrary to the popular notion of joy and
happiness in the world. The world tells us that happiness comes from having all
you need and desire, and it comes from the absence of negatives in your life.
The popular motivational talk is that if you want to be happy get rid of all
the negativity around you and you will be happy. It is this talk that has left
quite a number of people frustrated because try as they may, they still do not
find happiness because they have not found rest and satisfaction in Christ
(Matt. 11:28-30).
Counting your
blessings
In addition to abiding in Christ and finding our
satisfaction, we cultivate joy by recounting God’s abundant blessings in our
lives. We should always go through life knowing God is giving us better than we
actually deserve. Forgetfulness is a
human problem. We have the tendency to forget the grace of God and to remember
our frustrations. It is therefore no wonder that the psalmist declares:
Bless the LORD, O my soul,
and all that is within me,
bless his holy name!
Bless the LORD, O my soul,
and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your iniquity,
who heals all your diseases,
who redeems your life from the pit,
who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy,
who satisfies you with good
so that your youth is renewed like the eagles.
Psalm 103
There is a common notion which suggests that those who
follow and serve the Lord are deprived of joy. This notion portrays God as a
party pooper, who is out to sit on your joy. Therefore, it says that true
happiness can only be found in disobeying God and living in sin. Such kind of
thinking could not be further from the truth. True and lasting joy is found in
God through Christ. Those who are in Christ are in indeed complete! Here the
words of Isaac Watts in one of his many hymns:
Come, we that love the Lord, and let our joys be known; Join in a
song with sweet accord, and thus surround the throne. The sorrows of the mind
be banished from the place; Religion never was designed to make our pleasures
less.