It is always interesting to hear people’s
opinion on the pastor’s conduct and his duties. There are all kinds of notions
and teachings on how a pastor is to live his life. Whereas some of the things
said are true and biblical most of what I have heard is unbiblical and
unhealthy for ministry. It’s clear there are things that people need to know or
simply ignore about their pastors.
1. Your Pastor is not a sinless perfect Saint
As a matter of fact, you will not find a
sinless human being this side of eternity. So whereas pastors ought to be holy
and be an example to the people they lead, remember they still struggle with
sin and temptation the same way you are. Yes that’s true pastors have to battle
lust, worry, greed, lying, stealing, anger etc. Paul says Romans 7
For I do not do what I want, but I do the
very thing I hate. Now if I do what I do
not want, I agree with the law, that it is good. So now it is no longer I who
do it, but sin that dwells within me. For I know that nothing good dwells in me,
that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the
ability to carry it out. For I do not do
the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing.
2. Your Pastor is not a “jack of all trades”
The analogy of the church being a body is
very instructive. It means every part has a significant role to play for the
body to be fully functional and healthy. However there are people who take the
church to be a like a bus, where you can sleep and leave the driver to take you
to your destination. Invariably this has led people to come with all kinds of responsibilities
for the pastor. If we summed up everything the list would include among other
things, a choir master, an electrician, sound technician, a security guard, an
accountant, a driver, a chief executive officer, a therapist etc. The apostles
asked for deacons so that they may give themselves to “the word and prayer”
(Acts 6:1-2). There are things your pastor cannot do and there are things he
should not do for the sake of the health of the church.
3. Your Pastor does not know everything in the bible
This is a hard truth for pastors to admit,
but the truth is we do not know everything in the bible. A pastor should be “able
to teach” and know what he is teaching but there are a lot of things we do not
know in the bible and it is okay- we are human.
4. Your Pastor desperately needs your prayer and encouragement
The problem with thinking pastors are super
saints is you assume they do not need your prayers and encouragement. The
ministry can be a lonely, frustrating and discouraging place and it’s a
blessing to the soul to know someone is praying for you and to hear someone
urge to keep going.
5. Your Pastor is not like the other Pastor
Your pastor is uniquely gifted and will
never be like the pastor before or the pastor after him or the pastor down the
road or the pastor in the next town. No two pastors are the same and God
designed it that way. So do not compare your pastor to another man, do not
demand that he preaches like another preacher, on the contrary demand that he
be faithful to his task.